If you have ever set goals and then given up on them, then you are already familiar with the vicious Motivation/Burnout Cycle. It seems nearly universal that people decide to make changes in their life or their work, try really hard, even achieve great results, and then out of the blue become overwhelmed and quit. New Year’s Resolutions often end in a brilliant crash and burn just because of that, trying too hard.
Motivation: You know what you want, you have figured out what needs to be done to get it.
Action: You put your plan in action, you are determined to succeed.
Progress: Your work is paying off, you can see results.
Trial: Something interferes or makes working toward your goal hard.
Absence: You decide either consciously or unconsciously to take a break.
Burnout: You can’t dig up the motivation to return, the thought of resuming all that work is daunting.
To escape the burnout period in the cycle you have to work up new motivation, using new goals and methods. Returning to a method that has “failed” in your experience seems like a waste of time and has negative feelings associated with it.
How to Break the Cycle
Take baby steps. Often the biggest reason for failure is that you have bitten off more than you can chew. By taking smaller steps you can ease into a new project or lifestyle without upsetting the balance of your life. If you want to, say, write a novel, but you haven’t sat at a computer for years, you might want to set a daily goal of an easily attained word count or number of minutes. You can always increase them later when a good habit has been formed.
Enlist help. If you are the only one cheering yourself on you’ll run out of momentum. By having someone to hold yourself accountable to, you are more than twice as likely to succeed. For writing there are countless critique groups both live and online.
Reward yourself. Identify milestones along the way that once reached you can reward yourself. For my fellow writers, this can be the completion of a chapter, a certain number of words written, or working everyday for a predetermined number of days.
Throughout the course of any project there will be ups and downs. There will be times that quitting is a huge temptation. Know that this is normal. By understanding that sometimes things will get rough you will be better able to adjust your goals to keep moving forward. You may need to adjust your goals to be smaller for awhile until you feel ready again. Whatever you do try not to stop. Starting over again is far more difficult than slowing down.
Go for it!